Do you ever get tired of hearing about how important it is to believe in yourself? How limiting beliefs are holding you back? How in order to succeed you must change your beliefs about yourself? These statements are all true of course, but sometimes I have noticed with my clients, myself and people interested in personal and spiritual growth in general, that there is a tendency to feel we are always striving and never arriving. We aren’t quite enough.
It is important to remember that you are already complete and whole right now in this moment.
There is an underlying idea in the personal growth arena that we don’t have everything we want because we aren’t quite “there” yet. You aren’t pretty enough, spiritual enough, evolved enough, aware enough, etc. You don’t have enough money or the mate you long for or the job that fulfills your purpose because you aren’t quite enlightened “enough.” All you have to do is look around you to notice that there are plenty of people who have lots of money that aren’t very enlightened. There are plenty who have great relationships that aren’t completely self-aware. There are lots of people doing satisfying work that still have their own issues to work out. In other words, as humans, we aren’t perfect. Even more than that, we never “arrive”.
As soon as we work out one issue, another one pops up for us to deal with. You may get a job that fulfills your purpose, brings you great money, and allows you to express our authentic self, and suddenly find yourself laid off due to an economic downturn. Does this mean you aren’t enlightened? Could it mean you had a bad thought that created it? Perhaps it means you need more growth before you can manifest good again? Definitely not! This is another example of our ego working overtime when we are feeling vulnerable. I say (or rather John Lennon said), “Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans.”
When you can fully embrace your Spirit you will realize that you are whole and complete right NOW!
We need to stop letting our ego, or as I call it, our pigeon self, put us down for all the circumstances that happen in our life, and fully embrace our Authentic Spirit. You do not need to strive so hard because you are already that which you strive so hard to be. All you need do is be willing to drop the false ego and embrace your authenticity. The more time you spend connecting to your Authentic Spirit, the easier it will be to take that realization of being enough back into your daily life, back into the polarity of the ups and downs, the disappointments as well as the joys of living.