Happiness: The Down Side of Paradise

You’ve finally gotten what you truly wanted.  You have arrived.  You worked for it and now it is yours!  You envisioned it, you set goals to get there, you worked hard, and now you are finally there—right where you wanted to be.  Ahhhhh…the joy of the experience! But you no sooner settle into basking in …

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Purpose: The Completeness of Incomplete

These are the “things” remembered: the things that aren’t “things” at all.  The “unsubstantial” is in reality ALL that ever lasts. Sometimes my life feels like a long series of uncompleted thoughts and projects.  For instance, I love keeping journals but in many ways they just add to that feeling.  But I’m coming to realize …

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When Will You Finally Be Enough?

Do you ever get tired of hearing about how important it is to believe in yourself? How limiting beliefs are holding you back?  How in order to succeed you must change your beliefs about yourself? These statements are all true of course, but sometimes I have noticed with my clients, myself and people interested in …

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Undoing the Stress of Striving and not Arriving

I have two hours free till my next client so I wander by the bookshelf and pull down a book I’ve been wanting to read. I get my morning coffee and head for my comfy chair.  As I sit down to relax, I become aware of the all too familiar undercurrent of nervousness. I have …

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